Monday, May 24, 2010

Strength, Power, and Comfort

I have a friend who was a little girl when we met. I was her babysitter and later her co-worker. I watched her grow from a sassy, little girl who cut her own hair and started a trend of spiked bangs, to a determined young woman, and now a mother whose selflessness is an example to many. Although I'm older than she is by quite a bit, she has taught me with her strength, faith, and example. I am amazed by her attitude and gracious spirit. You can meet her and read about her family's journey over the past months at:

www.thelindsaychronicles5.blogspot.com

Yesterday an angel visited her little family. He was only with them on earth a short time, but it doesn't take long for someone like him to change your life. There is power in prayer; please remember my friend in yours. Not just today, but in the days and weeks ahead. Times like these are difficult because while friends, neighbors, and family are pillars of strength during trying times, life resumes at its usual light speed and those coping are still left to the task of remembering how to function following loss.

Dear Quinn,
I am inspired and touched by your family's journey. Words are inadequate, but I wanted to say that I admire your courage, faith, and willingness to share this blessing with others. I am grateful for your testimony and your example. Each of you are in our closest thoughts and prayers, and you know that anything you need is but a request away. We love you.

Thursday, May 13, 2010

True Confessions...

Lately I've not been my true self. I feel overwhelmed, tired, and a little sad. Why am I writing this? Why would I let my blog lapse for months and decide that I should resume with such a post? Because it's the truth...and this is where I feel I can get back to myself. I've missed writing. I miss searching my days and weeks to share a few of the highlights. Like many mother's, I'm racing through life. Filling my days with worthwhile efforts, and some that may not be so worthy of my time and energy. That will change. I intend to set goals that will transform this momentary negative loss of self into a learning experience. I will turn off the television. I will exercise for strength of body and mind. I will laugh with my children. I will kiss my husband. I will look for the good...especially in myself and my life. I will embrace opportunities and say no to requests that may take me beyond my limits. I will learn to be a morning person and to rest at night. I will conquer migraines and enjoy silence. I will simplify.

If you know me at all, you will know that this quest for simplification will be anything but simple for me. Who knows? Some days I may even go to bed with dishes in the sink and toys on the floor. ;)